Saturday, August 21, 2010

REFLECTION

Despite mothers' unpopular decision (in leaving the family) which affected all of us, we were aware that she loved us alot. It was painful to see her go. I would be lying if I say that I had no regrets. I wish a million times that I could communicate well with her. But life is like that. Nevertheless, I am glad to be able to provide her comfort whenever she was ill. The last few weeks spent with us, though not perfect, but at least we felt we had done our part.

Mother had led a eventful life, did what she thought was best. She had been kind to many people and we learned at the wake that there were people who took advantage of her kindness.

Alyssa was the most affected in our household. She wept bitterly at the hospital, at mother's house, and also at the wake and the funeral.

Alexus was sad appeared nonchalant at first, but shed tears on the final day. Mother had nevertheless spent many happy moments with him.

Father said something to mother at her casket. We were curious but dared not probe.

Sis and Janet, Melissa and Belinda had been emotional.

Ah Chun totally lost control of her emotion when the casket was being carried away, and fainted at the crematorium.

I feel Sharon, Brother, Savier and Daniel (especially Sharon) had done a wonderful job in making the funeral arrangement and helping with errands.

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