Planning

Talking about planning, I feel very frustrated that I am planning as if I am a single parent because he did not want to discuss the future. I don't know whether he had thought of the children's education. I don't see much of a future to plan for once the kids are independent. One case in point happened only yesterday when he told my maid "tell ma'am" when she told him the oven was out of order. He did not offer to pay for the children's vacation. He told the maid I should pay for the new rice cooker...